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Writer's pictureEmilia von dem Hagen

Desiderata by Max Ehrmann


It seems only fitting that I start these musings off with the very piece of writing that planted my love of poetry. A dated copy of Max Ehrmann’s 1920s poem Desiderata has hung on the wall of the kitchen in my house for as long as I can remember, though it admittedly took me well into my teens to bother reading it properly. Ever since, I’ve turned to the poem for grounding so often that it’s become engrained in my mind.

The best part and defining feature of the poem is its simplicity, which makes its words all the more striking. Ehrmann provides his wise two cents on how to live, but rather than being didactic he roots his advice instead in an inherent empathy for fellow people: “Listen to others, even the dull and the ignorant; they too have their stories.” Diligent with every word, he is principled and assertive while leaving the necessary room for a bit of mystery (“Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be"). The poem is both abstract and tangible – touching on everything from your religion to your career path.

I’ve returned constantly to Desiderata over the years, and each time a different line seems to stand out. Whatever the existential crises and questions, this poem seems to have an answer.


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Desiderata by Max Ehrmann

Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly;

and listen to others, even the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.


Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.


Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;

many persons strive for high ideals; and everywhere life is full of heroism.


Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass.


Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.


You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.

And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.


Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.


With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,

it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.


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